Problem Solving Pat helps children learn to identify problems, explore possible solutions, and make thoughtful choices when challenges arise. Through storytelling, movement, positive self-talk, and practice, children develop tools they can use at school, at home, and with others.
Positive Self-Talk
“I am a problem solver.”
How to Use This Lesson
1. Meet Problem Solving Pat
Introduce Problem Solving Pat, a real Powerful You kid who is learning how to solve problems. Ask children, “What do you do when something doesn't go your way?” Explain that everyone has problems sometimes, and we can learn different ways to solve them.
2. Breathe & Stretch
Choose a simple stretch from the Breathe and Stretch on the Beach book or follow Pat's FREE movement video. Practice taking a slow breath before deciding what to do when a problem happens.
3. Read the Powerful You Story
Read Problem Solving Pat's story from the Powerful You Primary book or laminated cards. Talk about Pat's feelings and experiences. Ask, “What could you try if your first solution doesn't work?”
4. Practice Positive Self-Talk
Say Pat's phrase together: “I am a problem solver.” Practice saying it aloud, then quietly in your mind. Remind children that they can use these words when they face a challenge or need to make a helpful choice.
5. Write or Draw
Choose a writing or drawing activity from the Powerful You Primary book. Invite children to draw a small problem and one way they could solve it.
6. Role-Play
Let children hold Pat's laminated card and pretend to be Problem Solving Pat! Act out situations such as two children wanting the same toy, someone cutting in line, or a friend saying something hurtful. Invite children to choose a solution from Pat's snail. Practice using words to share feelings, asking someone to stop, walking away, or finding a way to share.
7. Display the Skill Sign
Display Problem Solving Pat's Tips sign where children can see it. Explore the choices on Pat's snail: breathe, share, tell someone to stop, put your hands in your pockets, tell how you feel, use positive self-talk, walk away, and apologize. Ask, “Which choice could help with this problem?” Remind children that different problems may need different solutions.
8. Collect & Celebrate with Digital Brag Tags
Notice children using words, calming themselves, sharing, and trying helpful solutions. Celebrate their problem-solving efforts with Digital Brag Tags and say, “You used your Powerful You thinking!”